February 28, 2009

True or False

* your friend's ex is off-limits ... period

* your friend's ex is off-limits unless that friend is no longer in your life ... then she is fair game

discuss ...

9 comments:

Anonymous said...

* 7asab how close that friend is...if he is a close/best friend: true
if it is just a hi/hello friendship : false


* True
bas do you really want to be with somebody where you know who they have been with before you? In my opinion it is better not to recognize the faces from the past.

Jundi said...

well u cant call a hi/hello relationship a friendship aslan :p

but ya i see ur point .. there is a lot of baggage involved.

Anonymous said...

I don't know but if you aren't already in a fight with your freind you will most likely be in one if you do. But if you like the girl and you dont care about loosing the friend then go ahead.

Jundi said...

hehe well just to clear things up .. the friend is no longer in my life not cuz we fought just cuz we lost touch .. but if i did hook up with his ex hed find out for sure from her .. but thats a big if so it was more of a hypothetical question .. i doubt it will ever materialize.

Anonymous said...

ok then if you lost contact, then its fine, and if you really like the girl i think you should just tell her, you've got nothing to loose in this case

Jundi said...

ya we'll see how it goes .. right now i'm only thinking about one thing .. BEIRUT BABY :D

Dreamer said...

Says who?? Is that another unspoken rule in the "boy's code"?

Even if you are still friends with the guy I don't see why his EX, I repeat EX, should be off limits!!

Jundi said...

pru .. if ur gona talk the talk then u should walk the walk .. and so i ask u this .. so if ur friend dated ur ex u wouldnt mind?? hmmm?

also i prefer the term "guy's code".. "boy's code" sounds so juvenile :p
but yeah it kind of is part of the code .. there is one rule that says -no offense- bros over hos :D

Dreamer said...

I walk the walk and talk the talk, whatever that means :p

No I wouldn't mind! Girls have a different mentality. They do not mind stealing their best friend's boy friends, in fact they might plot and scheme to do just that!!

I got a news letter from my little boy's school the other day and it discussed the "boy's code". lol it is quite fascinating how men still stick to the same old code as when they were kids!

And that is one VERY offensive proverb!! Not to mention NOT TRUE!! If a guy really likes a girl he would easily KILL his brother to get her :O